Illustration by Camilla Ru. My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right? This week, we're talking to Jess Thomas about their experiences of hooking up with their closest friend. Growing up, I watched all these shows like Friends or Fresh Meat which featured a group of friends who all dated or slept together.
5 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex With Your Best Friend & 5 Dangers
Ever heard a married friend say that she married her best friend? So to finally settle the matter, we take a close look at the pros and cons of crossing the line and sleeping with your best friend, and what to do if you really do end up doing the deed. The sex will only strengthen your connection even more. Meeting someone new or starting a relationship with someone new can be a big risk.
First, let me say, there are a lot of variables in this scenario. You may have been best friends for years and innocently slept together. You may have been sleeping together for years casually and became best friends. You may have each other as a fallback when each other's girlfriend or boyfriend type relationships fail. Regardless of the situation, there are fifteen reasons why having sex with your best friends will bring genuine benefits.